I think fun is key. I think anytime you are doing something you love and you can feel good about it you are changing the world. You don't have to be any race, any color, any religion, any age, any gender to change the world.
Change. Love. They see none of that. That stuff is all petty nonsense. Until you can figure that out you need to get your priorities in order. You need an ultimate goal. AND YOU NEED to accept that one day. YES! It might disappear. But no. That's not a worthy cause to stop fighting.
This is not life. This is WAR! Yes you are going to loose shit. Yes you are going to get knocked down fighting! For the ones you love! But you can't get careless. You can't get too comfortable. You can't get too controlling. You have to accept it might ALL disappear. That's when you realize. This means War.
Whenever you loose. Change. Change to something fun. Something different. Productive. And good! To your best ability. That's all we are asked.